Commitment

Let’s face it after you’ve been dumped, like me you probably feel like death. No exaggeration there either, I know I couldn’t sleep or eat for weeks. How about you?

What most guys will do after they’ve been dumped is wallow in self pity for ever and eventually move on and accept the next best.

What the minority of guys will do though is decide to get their ex back. If it worked before it can work again right?

Due to the fact you are still reading here means you are in the small group who are at least prepared to give it a try and get your ex back.

We’ve agreed you are are prepared to give it a go and will fight to get her back, what comes next? How do you manage it?

In the age of the internet most of the info you need is available via one of the search engines. But, it’s probably in small bits here and there.

Luckily though someone has come before us and gathered all this good information and neatly packaged it up. And it’s easily gotten hold of.

Think back a minute or so when you agreed you would fight for her, well you won’t have to litterally fight the new guy if there is one, but you will have to do some work.

Hell, you might even have to fight the new guy if there is one! If you do I’m sure she’s worth it. Most times though it just involves some work and a cunning plan on your part.

Going back to our ready made methods. I got hold of two when I got my wife back but I got the refund on one. The other had a decent amount of useless padding but the stuff that wasn’t padding was pure gold. Pure psychological gold!

Although we aren’t aware of it, psychological warfare is going on around us every day. Parents, teachers, bosses and especially governments are at it almost every day.

I mean let’s face it, the government is employing a huge psychological mind game with us all believing we should be good citizens and pay our taxes. And guess what? Tactics like these work!

You can incorporate these tactics into your -get my ex back- plan. I used them and they worked great for me, as they will for you.

Now, these aren’t my ideas and I didn’t put the method together so I feel I can’t just give you someone elses work. What I can do though is show you where to get hold of a game plan that will cost you about the same as a cheap night out.

When you split with a partner, especially a loved one there’s pain. And then a bit more pain. After that there’s some more pain. I’m sure you get the picture.

You decide you want her back, but just how do you go about that?

You need a game plan that works! Without a game plan you may as well forget it. Adios sweet love!

The burning question is where do you go for a plan like that? Well fortunately there’s many men like us who have split and got back together.

It’s their experiences that we tap into to formulate our plan. However I must warn you they aren’t free. What is these days?

I used a plan I got off the internet. To be frank I expected it to be a crock of…well you get the idea.

As it happens it turned out to be a half decent package. A fair bit of filler but I suppose that’s just my opinion.

However there are a few cracking sections in there, particularly the psychological mind moves to get ur ex back. I loved this section.

There was a part before any of this though about getting my head together (very useful for me) before even attempting anything else.

It worked well for me ’cause I was an emotional train wreck. I’ve never backed down from a fight but being hurt emotionally just kills me.

I took the first psychological step and left her a very sly message on her answer phone. I knew the message and it’s content would make her very curious.

Worked great as well. Within the day she was back on the phone to me. Great considering I never asked her to call in the message. Her curiosity was peaked.

I continued to do what the plan suggested. Making moves at suggested times for a few weeks. Voila, it worked a treat. Almost like there was no breakup.

I used a foolproof plan to get my wife back that cost me no more than a cheap night out. I have to pinch myself sometimes it was that easy. No complaints though!

Well, I used a similar tactic to get my wife back as I used to get you to read past the article title.

The tactic in question is simple curiosity. We are all curious to a certain extent and we can’t help it.

It was curiosity that helped me get my ex back. I used a step by step system that started with a psychological curiosity trick.

I followed the instruction to leave my ex a message that may well have seemed odd to her but nevertheless made her curious enough to call back.

To get your wife back you need a proven, and preferably cash back guaranteed, system that has worked before and will work again.

Almost all humans work on the same psychological level. We all get curious and we all respond to certain triggers in the same way.

It’s these facts that allow us to not so much manipulate our ex but to gently sway them to our way of thinking.

In the method I used there’s a nice bonus collection of psychological mind games. It was these that worked well for me.

I started on the psychological moves after she returned my call from the first step where I left a message.

The idea was to get her comfortable with taking little steps leading to slightly bigger ones.

I got her to have coffee with me a few times until she felt quite comfortable with the situation.

Next was a few lunch dates until she felt safe with this situation.

Next step was a meal out at night. Yet again repeating until she started to get comfortable with this.

Next we moved onto a proper date and repeated this until she felt perfectly safe.

We next moved on to her occasionally staying over at mine after a night out. Keeping this up until it got routine for her.

I bet you can see the path we’re taking here. When she’s used to staying over it’s not such a large step to actually move back in.

These gradual steps to get my wife back were taken over a period of about 6 weeks. She always felt comfortable enough to take the next step and never feeling reluctance.

Some would say the little known techniques I used to get her backget my wife back are a little underhand. But not me.

If you are going through a split you have a couple of choices. Walk away for good or decide to make plans to get her back.

If you do decide to give up, first ask yourself if it’s really what you want?

Even if your relationship looks permanently dead, theres a chance you can recue it. All it takes is a decent plan and some effort on your part.

I used an off the shelf – get your ex back – system that I found on the net. Yes believe it or not there is such a thing. I know I was mega sceptical.

I made the choice to give it a try and get her back. I mean, I couldn’t lose her twice so it was worth a try.

In the system I bought and used there was an extra section on psychology and psychological triggers that can be used on people to get them to do things we would like.

It wasn’t anything heavy duty or wrong, it was simply the use of words and phrases and other little tricks that make us all respond to in a certain way. Advertisers use these things all the time.

The fact is, you cannot hypnotize someone to do something that is against their core beliefs. So I think it’s safe to say these psychological techniques are ok to use.

I included some psychological tricks in my overall system to get my wife back.

One trick was to leave a message on her answer machine that included info that would make her curious. The idea was to get her to call back out of curiosity without actually asking her to call back.

After that she called me a few times more and I made sure she could hear her favorite song playing in the background. The idea being to make her think of me when she heard that song.

After that it was one small step after another. Coffee, a casual date, a meal out somewhere, all these small steps led up to another slightly bigger one.

The final step was her moving back in with me. At this point it didn’t seem such a big deal to her as she’d been psychologically manipulated by all the smaller steps.

If you are in relationship hell at the moment, don’t despair as you can still get your wife or girlfriend back. Even if your chances look dead and buried.

When I was in your situation I wanted to get my wife back. I did a bit of internet research, just like you are now.

I came across a step by step plan that more or less held my hand while I went through the steps of getting my wife back.

One section involved the use of psychological tricks that we could employ to help us get to our goal.

This bit worked like a dream for me. It kick-started everything else and the rest was a walk in the park.

The first psychological trick I used was to leave my ex a message on her voice mail. Not any old message though. It was laced with a few words that would get her curiosity working overtime.

Scored a home run as well because she was on the phone to me within the day. And the best was she was certain it was her that made the cantact in the first place.

She totally brushed aside the fact that I’d purposely left a message on her voice mail. To this day she thinks she was the one who got us back together. So I aint gonna tell her otherwise.

Some people might say these mind tricks are a bit manipulative and they are right. But no more so than happens everyday in our lives in some way.

You can see a great example with employee of the month competitions. You rarely win anything worth anything. But you do get to brag you are a top employee!

This is psychology in use here, but this time by our employers in order to get us to work harder and win that coveted employee of the month title. Hardly manipulative mind games.

To help me get my wife back I used a guaranteed plan of action that happened to include some mind moves. Think about getting one of these simple to follow plans.

Without a plan of some sort you would be randomly trying things that could make your split more permanent than it is right now.

For the price of a cheap date, can you afford not to get yourself a plan?

Use the same step by step system that I used and get your ex back.

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Relationship Expert, writes… …

I’m frequently asked how to find love when there’s been so much failure in the past. I thought I’d share some of the frequently asked questions and the Universal Law of Attraction model answer.

1. I’m in my mid-40’s. I’m just about to give up on love. I’m afraid my time has passed.

Don’t give up. It’s NEVER too late. Make it your dominant intention to find out what belief you hold that stands between you and being a magnet for love.

Consider the Universe is a gigantic intention fulfillment machine. When you want a love relationship and you keep getting duds, there’s a mismatch in your beliefs. You have a lingering belief in not being worthy, or that something else is wrong with you. When you find out what that belief is, do whatever it takes to soothe yourself about it. Read how to bridge a belief in the Resources section on www.nanettegeiger.com.

2. How can I know that I’m in the allowing mode? That is an excellent question! And I believe that it is the foundational piece that most of us need to work on. How do you work on the positive expectancy, the believing, knowing, the certainty? One of the very best ways is to work with the ‘feeling state’ as much as possible. Every day, several times per day.

Play with the energy of make believe and feel it as real. How will you feel when… … the love of your life comes to stay … you plan a surprise gourmet picnic for him … you giggle at the inside jokes you both share … you sing songs in the car on a road trip etc., etc. You get the idea. This will move your expectation frequency into the state of allowing because you’re acting AS-IF it’s already so.

If you’ve been dumped, or even if you dumped her, you may have made the decision to get your wife (or girlfriend) back.

To get my wife back I used these 5 steps. You could too and if you do you may well get her back quite easily.

Step 1 – I got myself a plan. A battle plan if you will. I searched all over the net for the best info I could find.

All roads kept pointing me to two particular ready made guides that definitely looked the part. But would they deliver?

I purchased both books and one was absolute rubbish. The other one, called “The Magic Of Making Up” was pretty good. Only pretty good because it had too much padding. The good bits were dynamite though.

Step 2 – I was an emotional train wreck so I heeded the books advice and took a bit of time to get myself in a much stronger emotional state.

I followed the advice and after a week or so I was feeling far more emotionally able to tackle the problem head on.

Step 3 – I made the decision to try some of the psychological mumbo jumbo that was in one of the better bits of the guide.

The psychological trick was to leave her a seeded (with curiosity) message on her voice mail. I didn’t ask her to call me back but she did within 24 hours.

Step 4 – Another psychological trick here that involved having her favorite song on loud enough for her to hear, if ever she phoned.

She started to call often enough and I made sure I had her song on in the background just loud enough for her to hear. She never realised that I’d cornered her into making the first call, she still believes she did the running.

Step 5 – A couple of weeks went by and she phoned me quite a few times. So I thought it’s time for the next move, ask her out for coffee.

She said ok and it was plain sailing after this. Coffee turned into a nice meal. Which turned into a proper date. Which then turned into her staying over at mine now and then.

Which all ended up in her staying over more often than not. Which ended up with me getting my ex back. Total time taken, about 6 to 8 weeks.

Relationships break down from time to time, we all know that. But we don’t all realise that you can turn a split right around and make it up again. You can easily get your wife back.

I got myself a plan when I was dumped. Without a plan I think we are more or less destined to stay dumped.

The first thing I done was to give them a bit of space. No chasing at all. No texting. No calling and absolutely no stalking or kidnapping.

I simply did not want to let her see me as desperate and needy. I’m a man and men don’t do that kind of stuff!

I gave my self a bit of time and got my head together. Depression and worry are not your friend. They will drag you down into a pit you might never climb out of.

I then started to get out and about and did a bit of socializing. If by accident, and by accident I mean totally planned, your ex sees you or hears you’ve been out and about it plants a seed of jealousy.

Doesn’t matter who dumped who, if she saw you out on a date there’s every chance the green eyed monster would surface. We simply can’t help having a bit of jealousy.

Next on my game plan was to make sure I got a message left on her voicemail. I had to do it while she was out. Wouldn’t work if I spoke to her.

I laced the message with a psychological hook that she took like a greedy salmon on a line.

You gotta use all the tactics you can if you wanna succeed and get ur ex back

The psychological hook was simply curiosity. I knew it would make her so curious as to not be able to resist calling me back.

She was on the phone to me within 24 hours to find out how I was, what I had been up to. Bingo! First part of the plan successful.

She did not realise that it was me who had made the contact, she was sure she had gotten in touch with me on her own. Her mind wasn’t interested in the message I’d left, just the fact she called me.

After this, it was enough to get the relationship ball rolling again. We’re together again and she is convinced she made the first move. Even though it was her who split with me, psychological mind control has her believing she also made up with me. Nice.

I managed to get my wife back with the help of a step by step system that has all the bases covered, and I mean all, you simply can’t go wrong.

Ask yourself the question in the article title. It it acceptable to try and get my wife back with psychological tricks? Well if you ask me I’d say yes.

I’m sure there’s lots of talk about how devious it is to use psychological tricks but the fact remains we use these and other tricks every day.

We use psychological mind games in our daily lives all of the time.

Quite often we use reverse psychology on our children to get them to do something they don’t want to. We may even use psychology on our friends or colleagues.

When we do these things we rarely even notice we are doing it. It simply becomes second nature to us to weave a bit of psychological magic into our conversations.

You may fancy a session at the gym but your friend doesn’t fancy it. You slip in a comment that if they aren’t physically capable then that’s ok. Their sense of pride takes over and they are pumping iron before you.

You get your friend to do as you asked by merely slipping in a few choice words. These are psychological tricks in use. They don’t seem unethical to me.

You can use these tricks as part of your overall – get your ex back – strategy. One that worked for me involved curiosity.

The trick involved leaving her a message on her answerphone that contained stuff she would most definitely be curious about. It worked as she got back to me to have a nice chat.

There’s other tricks you can use too. How about playing her favorite song in the background when she calls? She will start to link you with her favorite song. Then she starts to see you in a different light again.

If she comes to visit, if only to collect her belongings you could cook her favourite food. Then the smell of this conjours your image eveytime she smells it later.

There’s a whole host of tricks like these you can add to your plan to get your wife back. But the fact remains you got to have a solid plan if you want the right result.

If you haven’t got a plan of action you are destined to fail as these tricks won’t cut it on their own. You should get a plan of action like the one I used when I needed to get my wife back.

Chances are you are here because of one thought floating about your mind. That thought is – get my wife back – get my wife back – get my wife back – I’m sure you get it.

I can sympathise with you because I was given the elbow in a big way and that single thought was my only thought for ages.

First off you need to get a plan. Without one you are doomed to fail. Luckily there’s a lot of info on the net from people who’ve been dumped and successfully reversed the situation.

I’m not saying it’s easy and I’m not saying it’ll happen overnight but it’s certainly something you can do (get your ex back) with a bit of effort.

You could go on and on gathering info and tips and tricks. And knowing whether it’s any good is nigh on impossible.

This is where other people’s experiences work for us. We all work on the same emotional levels so a method that is proven successful for thousands of others will no doubt work for us.

I was very sceptical of any book or course working like this but I was quite wrong. It worked very well for me.

I can’t claim that one psychological trick worked to get her back but it put into motion a chain of events. A chain that ended with us back as a couple.

I used the power of curiosity to get my wife to call me back after I left a message. I never even asked her to call me. But she did.

Curiosity is a massive driving factor in our lives. We are by nature curious to know. It’s more than that, it’s a need. We need to know.

I phoned my ex and left a message and I made sure I got the curiosity hook in the message. Sure enough she was on the phone back to me within the day.

It was plain sailing after this as my wife was now doing the running after me. I had left a simple message loaded with a curiosity hook and she had taken it up from there.

I’d be willing to wager 99 out of 100 people would call back after receiving a message like that.

When she called I had to follow through with my plan but like I said, it isn’t my original plan. I wasn’t the author. It cost me less than our last pre-split date to download the package.

I can say hand on heart that it was worth every penny I spent. If I had known it would work this good I’d have coughed up many times the forty bucks it cost me.

I can’t go into detail here of the tips and tricks as it’s not fair to give away other peoples hard work.

If someone has worked hard enough to put a (successful) system down in an easy to follow guide then I think they at least have earned the chance to sell it to you themselves.

When I just had to get my wife back I used these methods so the least I can do is show you where to get hold of them. I’m positive they can work for you as well.

In conclusion your wife won’t come back on her own. The first move is up to you. Well, the first move is yours but she may think it was hers! Strong stuff indeed.